Wednesday, September 23, 2009

The Soldiers

It amazes me how the world works these days....I've resisted having a twitter or facebook account because it is so much less personal than actually TALKING to or WRITING someone...Having said that, I signed up for both maybe 2 months ago and I'm hooked. It is nice to see whats going on with so many of my friends that I (BAD ME!) haven't made enough time to stay in contact with...but what I really love about it is that they have both, twitter and facebook, introduced me to some amazing artist and musicians.

Like the group "THE SOLDIERS"...I don't know how they found me, but one day I get a follow notice from twitter saying they are following me. I check them out to see if I want to follow them back and I am blown away by who they are and what they stand for.....


Here is a link to a article about them, it does them far more justice than I can just disregard the blurb above the photo....


I have posted their first single "Coming Home" in my sidebar. I hope you'll take a listen and join me in supporting these fellas. While they are building their website you can find them on face book at http://www.facebook.com/thesoldiers


My thanks go out to these soldiers and any soldier (and their families) that is fighting to preserve freedom.

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Jonny Blu 09/12/09

I've promised several times to do better and post more often and I have failed miserably but I am going to do better. Really!

As you know, I love music, I love books, I love MartiniInTheMorning, I love my family....but I ADORE going to a concert. A live show with a talented musician wakes something in me and the feeling lasts for days, weeks even.

Recently I've added NYC to my list of places I am willing to travel to for a short stay and a live show. In past 3 months I've been to NYC 3 times. Each time being lucky to see someone fabulous perform. Most recently I went to see Jonny Blu and the Iridium Jazz Club for his CD release party and I thought I would share my amazing night with you......

It wasn't my first time seeing Jonny perform so I thought I knew what to expect but what I got was SO much more....Long story short, Jonny was FANTASTIC!

Now for the details…. (you didn’t really think I was going stop there did ya?) I got to the club a couple of minutes early and was told by the staff that I needed to wait outside while they straightened up from the previous show. It was a beautiful night in NY and I enjoyed watching the hustle and bustle of the city. While waiting I saw Tony DeSare show up. As a fan of all things Martini in the Morning I was pretty excited. I had heard on MartniInTheMorning that he was going to be there, but I didn't really believe it....

We were finally let in and I was seated at a table right up front but to the left of the stage. I was suppose to meet another huge Jonny fan and her husband but she got sick and wasn’t able to come. I didn’t know that at the time though so I was seated at a table for 4. After being seated I looked around and saw Tony. I know it’s rude but I had to go up and introduce myself. We’ve chatted on Facebook and he’s a big fan of MITM too.

I went back to my table and waited for my friend to show….the lights started to dim and I was beginning to feel a little awkward sitting at such a large table by myself. I looked around and Tony caught my eye….I said “looks like I’ve been stood up” and he invited me to his table. What a gentleman! (Not to mention the seat was center stage!)

On to the show….Jonny came on looking mighty fine and started off with Taboo from his new album of the same name. I was worried at first that his wonderful voice was going to be drowned out by the brass but no, he was terrific. I can’t tell you every song he sang or in what order but a few of the nights highlights were some of his originals (I need love, In a Groove, and Sweet Lovin’ in the Afternoon) as well as the latin standards (Besame Mucho, Frenesi, and Sabor a mi) He was on for over an hour, but it wasn't long enough...I could have listen to him all night long.

He kept up the energy the entire night and I have to say he is great at making eye contact with the audience. Every time he caught my eye I felt like he was singing just to me. There was one lady up front (lets call her barbi,) who was in sheer ecstasy and didn’t mind letting EVERYONE know. LOL

After the show Jonny came out and sign CD’s and took pictures. I waited till the end to talk to him so he wouldn’t be so rushed. While I waited I chatted with Tony and got a picture of us. I felt silly asking but didn’t figure anyone would believe me without the photographic proof! LOL He was very sweet to put up with me. I also spent a lot of time chatting with Jonny’s mum. What a great lady. How luck is Jonny to have such a supportive family? I ran into Bob Malone while waiting too, he’s the pianist on all Jonny’s songs and he arranged all the music on the new album. He is AMAZING on the keys! He has his own albums as well, more bluzey than jazz, but I love them.

I waited so long that by the end it was Jonny, Bob, me and his mum. We all headed out and as a group started to walk back to our respective hotels. Bob was starving so he took off to get some food but Jonny and I walked his mum back to her hotel. Another great example of what a nice guy he is…he could have stuck his mum in a cab and got on with partying but instead he saw her safely home. How cool is that?

I did get the opportunity to buy him the drink I owed him but that’s a whole other story……

You can find Jonny online at http://www.jonnyblumusic.com and on Facebook. His new album Taboo is going to be release 1st at CDbaby.com on Oct 6th. I have my copy but I need to pick up a few more for some friends. Can't wait!

And here's one of my favorite pictures of Jonny...What is it about a good looking man in jeans and bare feet? Enjoy!

Friday, May 8, 2009

My "home" away from home....

Some days I think I'm an idiot, other days I KNOW it. Today I come on online to post a blog about a recent show I was at and what do I find....a post that I wrote almost 4 months ago was saved as a draft instead of being published. OOPS! I wrote this while sitting with Brad in the MartiniInTheMorning studio. It's lost some of it immediacy but I still think you'll find it interesting....Enjoy! (post dated May but actually published Sept 2009, What a doofus!)

Almost a year and a half ago I was introduced to the most amazing internet radio station via the Michael Buble fan club. http://www.martiniinthemorning.com and I've been hooked ever since. They play all the "classic cool" singers like Frank Sinatra, Ella Fitzgerald, Dean Martin, Bobby Darin, Mel Torme, Rosemary Clooney, singing the greatest songs in American history, aptly named "The Great American Songbook". They also play the "contemporary cool" singers like Michael Buble (more than any other station in the world), Harry Connick Jr., Diana Krall, Peter Cincotti, The Pussycat Dolls, Norah Jones, Seal and many others singing those same great songs. On top of all that they are the only champions I am aware of new and up and coming singers singing this great music. They have introduced me to so many new and talented artist like Renee Olstead, Jonny Blu, Erin Boheme, Matt Belsante, Jaimee Paul, Tony DeSare and Tamela D'Amico.


I don't know many of stations that play this music, but those that I do know ONLY play the classic singers and it feels very nostalgic....and yes, even boring. That is no way to play this amazing music. I know some don't think there is a market for this music or at least not with the 50 or younger crowd but I totally disagree. I am 32 and have been listening to this music for at least the last decade. My friends and I listen to a little bit of everything, but ALL of us have a special place in our hearts for this rich piece of our musical history. There is NOTHING boring or stodgy about this music.


Beyond all the wonderful music they play, they have a wonderful website that includes a forum and a chat room. I've been in the chat room since the day it opened and I have met the nicest people. They are funny, generous, kind, thoughtful and Hey! they have GREAT taste in tunes. I have met several of the for dinner, drinks or a concert (or all three).
We've all become a "family"! When one of us is sick or having issues someone is always there for them. I don't know of any other chat or forum that generates such strong ties. Granted, other than MartiniInTheMorning I spend very little time online. (This isn't true anymore, I've succumbed and have joined Twitter and Facebook)


Brad "Martini" Chambers is our "fearless leader" He has been in the radio biz for years and MartiniInTheMorning is his baby. He was playing this format for years on the AM Dial and once Clear Channel, in their infinite wisdom, decided that this music didn't have a place on thier air, he went out on his own and started his own "lounge on the web". Now three years later there are listeners all around the world. I've made friends from Mexico to Moscow and from Scotland to San Fransisco!


I listen every day, thank goodness you can get them on the web! Now if only I could get them in my car. One day I hope they'll be on the dial but as long as I have the internet I'll be a MartiniInTheMorning listener. Beyond being a listener I am also a supporter of all things Martini! This wonderful station is listener supported and like every business these days is having a hard time. Some of us make a monthly donation, some just when we can but all of us do what we can to spread the word about this amazing station.

MartiniInTheMorning recently celebrated it's 3rd Anniversary. Congratulations Brad! It is an wonderful, amazing, crazy, cool thing you have accomplished and I love being a part of it.


Tuesday, May 27, 2008

VEGAS, MIKEY & ME!!!!

I thought about naming this post “Cross Country Insanity, Part II” but that seemed to wordy….and boring. VEGAS, MIKEY & ME seems so much more appropriate. It’s concise, descriptive and way more fun. Yes, Ladies and Gents, I flew back to the west coast for one last Michael Buble concert….or more precisely the David Foster & Friends concert in Vegas where Michael was just one of many incredible performers.

Kenny G, Andrea Bocelli, Josh Groban, MICHAEL BUBLE, Michael Johns, William Joseph, Katherine McPhee, Boz Scaggs, Peter Cetara, Blake Shelton, CHERICE, Sheryl Lynn, Brian McNight, Baby Face and his brother, Eric Bonet and Renee Olmstead….I may have forgot one or two, Sorry! It was all so amazing; I was and still am completely overwhelmed.


I admit it! I flew all those miles and spent all that money to get to see Mikey one last time before he leaves the US for the international leg of his “Call me Irresponsible” Tour. What I got for the money was SOOOOOO much more than that though. I was lucky enough to be joined by three of my closest friends and made a couple more while I was there. There was a total of 7 of us, 9 if you include the Martini in the Morning ticket winners, Two came from KY, one from MA, one from UT, two from CA, my best friend and I are from OH, and the truly amazing part, one came all the way from Nottingham England. Being able to spend this time with some of the nicest, craziest women you could hope to meet made the weekend for me….well that and I got to dance (kinda) with Mikey, but I will get to that part in a bit.


I won’t waste time on how we got our hands on so many tickets or how hard it was to find butts to put in all the seats, what I will say is that it was worth every penny and every headache and hurdle, not to mention the jet lag. Thank goodness I didn’t have to plan this on my own…one of the lovely ladies I mentioned earlier was the driving force behind most of it. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!


David Foster is an extremely charismatic performer. He was funny, engaging, TALENTED, and naughty. Hmmm, that reminds me of someone! I wonder who? He was the ring master of this circus and except for one intermission and one performance spent the entire 4 -4 ½ hours onstage keeping us all enthralled. Oh, and I forgot to mention, this whole event was being filmed for PBS to be aired in December 2008.

The show started with a montage of clips all revolving around the amazing career of David Foster. I thought I was pretty knowledgeable about his body of work, but as the montage played I realized how little I knew about the incredible influence he has had on the soundtrack of my life. They played snippets of so many song that I knew. Ones I danced too, loved, cried, and dreamed too. My best friend was sitting next to me and she was even more astonished that I was…..we decided right then that we need to pull together a “David Foster” playlist. How many songs do we own that he sang, wrote, and or produced? There is no telling….but we’ll find out!


There is no way for me to recall all the songs that all the performers sang, but I can say that there was not a single bad note the whole night. There wasn’t a single performer who didn’t give it their all. And I seriously doubt there was anyone in the audience who wasn’t moved. How about I give you the highlights?


The first performer who caught my attention was Michael Johns. Now, I don’t watch American Idol, so I had never heard of this kid before but WOW! The boy knows how to sing 80’s rock and roll. I would like to hear him play his type of music, whatever that is…knowing what I know about David Foster I bet I will enjoy it quite a lot.

Andrea Bocelli, this man is probably the best vocalist in the world and when he opens his mouth to sing, even when it’s not in English, I just have to shut up and listen. I will be completely honest and say that while I’ve always enjoyed his music it doesn’t tend to capture me. If I don’t know the words I can’t get into the song…..however, LIVE, his voice is absolutely stunning. English or not it doesn’t matter. He did a duet with Katherine McPhee, also from American Idol fame, and it was beautiful. They sang “The Prayer”. Andrea originally sang it with Celine Dion and I believe another of David’s prodigies (Josh Groban) did it as well. In my opinion, this was the best version I have ever heard.



I will have to do another entire post someday about my fascination with Men who play Piano, but I will leave that for another day. I first heard of William Joseph from Jim Brickman’s website. Jim Brickman is a pianist and the only other performer who I like enough to join their fan club. On his site he likes to put up blurbs about new music he has found and that he thinks we might enjoy. He was spot on with William Joseph; this guy knows how to wail on the piano, as he proved Friday night playing a very hot Led Zeppelin song (Kashmir). David Foster told us all to go out the next day and buy William Joseph’s new album (came out last Tuesday…I had bought it off iTunes by 8am that same day) from amazon.com…and he would check…”he knows people.” Here is an album preview with William Joseph and David Foster.



Josh Groban ended the concert with his “You Raise Me Up” backed by a choir and it was very touching. I have enjoyed all of Josh’s albums but like Andrea I prefer his music when it’s in English.

The show stealer of the evening was a young woman (16) from the Philippians named Charice. Apparently Oprah found her off of a YouTube video, called David up and suggested that Charice be asked to perform during this show. The neat thing about it is that the first time David sees and hears this incredible girl she is singing one of his songs from “Dreamgirls” Well, smart guy that he is, he said yes…according to him you don’t turn down “O” when she calls. Please take a moment to watch this YouTube clip of Charice on Ellen. She sings two songs, both written and or produced by David. Don’t worry; I’ll wait for you.




The best part for me, even if he was still sick, was, and this can’t surprise anyone who knows me, Michael Buble. When he came on stage all of us (myself and the 4 other Buble fanatics I was sitting with) got up and started whooping and hollering….While I kept my eyes on my fella, I could hear other pockets of crazed fans around the arena doing the same thing. He started his set with “Feeling Good”. Damn that man is sexy!

Then he started joking with David Foster and I don’t know who taught who, but they have the SAME stage presence…laughing, joking, interacting with the audience, the slightly off colour humour…..He did a snippet of “Me so Horny” and tried to sing his number on single “Home” with a country twang. David Foster stopped him and invited Blake Shelton out to sing it as a duet. It was lovely. He also sang “Cry” at David’s request, and a little birdie told me that it might be on his next album. I truly hope so!


The best part was this….Michael says to the audience, “I need you to do me a favor….” I hear an OMG next to me and I realize (HOPE FERVENTLY) what is about to happen….”you’ve been sitting on your butts for the last 4 hours”…Unlike all the Michael Buble concerts I have attended the audience didn’t jump right to their feet. We (all five of us) on the other hand were trying to get up and to the aisle….I didn’t see it, but I heard from a couple of people that when he said “Come on ladies, Get up and dance!” that he was pointing to me and the ladies I was with. (I probably shouldn’t use quotation marks, the words might not be completely accurate, but they are to the best of my recollection) We made our way up to the front but stopped parallel with the front row…don’t know why, but no one was actually approaching the stage. I was dancing, the song was “Save the Last Dance For Me” Michael looked at me (He recognized me!…That’s my story, and I’m sticking to it!) did the “come here” gesture…I danced my way to the stage, he reached down for my hand and held it for several bars…I kept dancing, he kept dancing….I know it was probably seconds that he held my hand and we danced but it felt like forever. It was FANTABULOUS!!!!! I hope I don’t get edited out of the aired edition, but if I do, at least I have the wonderful memory.


After the show ended both he and David Foster came off the stage and took pictures with the fans and signed autographs. I didn’t get there soon enough but the lovely lady from the UK got one. If someone had asked me before the concert to pick only one of us to have her picture taken I would have picked her…..so all in all the night was perfect.

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Cross Country Insanity!

I know I said I would be better at writing more often and that I have failed miserabley but I hope you will all forgive me when I tell you about following one of my obsessions across the country. Crazy? Me? Absolutely!

In my last post I told you I was lucky enough to find tickets to Michael Buble concerts in Indianapolis and Cincinatti...well I also managed to snag tickets for Cleveland, San Jose and Fresno. The last two being on the opposite coast from where I live.

My first show in Columbus was in the cheap seats, my next show in Cincinnati was 3rd row, and I have to say it made all the difference. I have now sat in 1st row twice, 2nd row once, 3rd row once, and 5th row once.....I will never be able to sit in the cheap seats again, and not just for a Michael Buble concert but any concert. All of the concerts were amazing and rather than go over each in detail I will give you a few highlights...

Cincinnati: I went to the concert with another obsessed fan and we had a blast...3rd row was fantastic and we made it to the stage toward the end of the concert. Michael is amazing at making eye contact and it felt like he was singing just to us. He was his usual funny, charming, sexy self. This time I stayed til the very last note was sung and was moved to tears by "Song for you".

Indianapolis: This time I went to the show with my best friend and the other author of this blog. She's a huge fan as well, but not quite as crazy as I am....Thank God! Once of us has to stay sane.
Poor Mikey was under the weather and unlike the previous shows didn't come out into the crowd. While the show was slower paced it was still AMAZING!!!! I couldn't believe I had seen him three times.

The highlight of this show was actually his opening act...Naturally 7... a couple of days before there had been a earth quake that scared a lot of people....they decided it was a sign to add a special touch to thier show. They did an incredible version of Amazing Grace.

Amazing Grace is my favorite hymn and I don't like it when people mess with the arrangement. Having said that, Naturally 7's version is the most powerful, inspiring, heaven sent version I have ever heard.

The funny thing is, other than that one song I don't remember thier act that night at all...I was too busy watching Michael read a thank you note I gave his bodyguard Steve. I had hoped he would read it, I never expected to WATCH him read it. I thought my heart was going to explode.

Cleveland: BEST NIGHT EVER! I got to meet Michael Buble....Yes, the concert was amazing, the people I met were great, the drinking afterwards with my MB obsessed concert buddy and coherts was a blast, but it boils down to I GOT TO MEET MICHAEL BUBLE. I even got a hug and a kiss from him. What more is there to say?

I thought this would be my last concert this tour and felt a little blue about it for a couple of days after the show....then my concert buddy and I started looking for good seats at some of the other shows, and what do you know, she found us 1st row seats to the San Jose CA show....the plan...fly in the night of the concert and fly home the next day.....Yes! Fly from the east coast, stay 19 hours and fly home. I told you I was crazy!

I managed to find 2nd row seats to the Fresno show and I figured what the hey? I was going to be in CA already, might as well stay a couple of days.

San Jose: Before the show I ran into Steve, Michaels bodyguard....apparently I have reached groupie status because I see Steve and he's like "I haven't seen you for a few concerts, where have you been?" As for the concert Mikey was definately feeling better, the energy at this concert blew all the other concerts I have ever been to out of the water. It was also the home of one of his band member and that added something special to the night. I watched Michael sing a couple of lines from his hit "Everything" straight into my friends eyes, from maybe a foot away. He was close enough to grab but I restrained myself. It was an incredible moment and made both of us melt!

I almost forgot....silly me...I also got a kiss from Michael when he came down into the crowd. YIPEE!!!

Unfortunately the night had to end and my concert buddy couldn't stay. I was left alone in CA, with an extra ticket to a Michael Buble concert...Whatever is a girl to do?

Well this girl decided to offer the extra ticket to her absolute favorite broadcast team. If you haven't heard of Martini in the Morning let me give you a quick education.... It is a internet radio show that plays all the great standards from the 50's and 60's as well as contemporary artists covering the Great American Songbook....such as Michael Buble.....yes, all roads lead back to Buble!

I have been listening to Brad Chambers and Michelle Briddell at http://www.martiniinthemorning.com/ for a couple of months now and I have to say they are the greatest. The show is 100% listener supported and they had mentioned on air how they weren't able to go to any of Michaels shows this tour....I had an extra ticket and a couple of days to kill, so I called them up and asked them to join me and if I could come by thier studio for a visit.

They said yes to the visit, but wasn't sure they could make the concert on such short notice and with having to be back in the studio at 4:30 the following morning. They thought I was crazy for driving from Fresno to North Hollywood but I didn't mind. We all know I am crazy! Anticipating talking them into coming with me I put a bid on a 2nd pair of tickets on ebay...that way Michelle, Brad and his wife could join me.

I spent 5 hours with them at thier studio and it was a blast, 2nd best part of my trip for sure. (Sorry guys, Mikey wins 1st place) They talked about me on air, made fun of me on air and were in general very very sweet to me. I offered to leave as I didn't want to out stay my welcome but they kept saying to stay. I got to hear alot of great stories about Mel Torme, Michael Buble, Kevin Spacey, Peter Cencotti and many others.

Here is a YouTube video from when Michael was in thier studio.




Unfortunately neither Brad or Michelle were able to make it work out for the concert so I gave them the extra pair of tickets to give away on thier show. For my extra seat in the second row...I had a plan....

The night of the show as the arena was filling up I walked up into the nosebleed seats and started shouting out for a person there on thier own.....I had numerous wives and girlfriends offer to ditch thier fellas and friends but I couldn't find a single person there to save my life.....a group of kids followed me into the next section and begged me to give one of their friends the ticket....She was turning 18 the next day and was at this concert as a birthday gift to herself. I caved and went to find her....She was so excite that she couldn't get her name out...it was cute. I think I may have ruined the poor girl for life..it was her first concert ever and she made it all the way to the front...Michael even grabbed her hand while singing. HAPPY BIRTHDAY HEIDI!!!


In between Naturally 7 and Michael's set, I got up and congradulated the Martini in the Morning winner, who by sheer chance was also a member of Michael's fanclub. She had joined the day before and read my post about the ticket giveaway on the boards. She said she managed to get her entry in about 30 minutes before the contest closed....I figure it was meant to be.

The concert had even more energy than the last one and watching it with someone who has never seen live before added a whole new vibe to the night. Since I was 2nd row center I didn't have easy access to the aisle to run up to the stage at the appropriate time, so without a care for my dignity I climbed over first row making sure Heidi followed me. Hope Mikey wasn't watching!
Well thats all for now, I have run out of steam. I am sure I missed several things, but I will try to blog again as soon as I think of them. Thanks for letting me ramble!

Thursday, April 3, 2008

Everything Buble

Okay, it's been a while. I am terrible at keeping up with this type of stuff....but I have an excuse...since my last post I have moved and started working full time again. Enough about me though, I want to talk about my latest obsession. Latest might be a bit of a misnomer, I have been obsessed, enthralled by, lusting after this man for quite awhile. For those of you who don't recognize the name "Buble" it is pronounced Bub-lay...not bubble!

He is an amazing entertainer. Some call his music "old". But what the hay...."everything old is new again" And thank goodness, he uses his incredible voice to redo the standards and if that isn't enough he has written several original songs. Two of which have made it to #1. I liked him before he ever hit the top of the chart though.


I was lucky to win two seats to his recent concert in Cincinnati and was surprised by his sense of humor. Lucky me, he sounds better live. (some artist just don't...know what I mean?) In between songs he would make the entire audience laugh. Sometime he was sweet sometimes he was naughty. I LOVED it when he was naughty. Oh, Yeah!

I finally get what the big deal was about Elvis. I am too young to have ever seen him. Of course I know who he is, I've heard his music, seen the movies he has been in and the movies about him...Heck I've even heard the rumors....but I never got it. Why would grown women scream and swoon for him? Now I know! Michael had me screaming the whole night.

I didn't have great seats but by the third song in I knew as soon as I left the concert I would be finding tickets for his next one. I now have tickets for Columbus and Indianapolis. I can't wait to see him again. Maybe this time I will get lucky and meet him...hmmmmm.....

Friday, February 1, 2008

Kick starting our blog.....

A quick disclaimer - This blog is written by two very book obsessed people. When it comes to books anything goes and we are very very opinionated.

At the time of this posting we are a slightly toasted and celebrating a much anticipated move out of the Great Frozen North (otherwise called North Pole, Alaska) and into civilization.

We are happy to start this blog talking about one of our favorite subjects.....Hot Men....Alpha Men...Nerdy Men...the ones that fascinate us and makes us go....mmmmmm!

Nalini Singh has posted a contest at http://www.nalinisingh.blogspot.com/ in honor of her February 5th release of Mine To Possess. It's pretty simple, write about hot men in fiction, whether books or tv, and explain why they draw us. Forgive us if we tend to go on and on and on but there are so many men, so many reason, and not near enough time.

First on our list....and in no particular order is "Roarke". For those of you who don't recognize the name, he is the Alpha male in JD Robb's "In Death" series. He is descriped as georgeous, with the face of a fallen angel and hint of an Irish brogue. Of course thats nice and all but what really does it for us is how very ALPHA he is......

Definition Break: ALPHA according to the BookeWyrms: An alpha male is possesive about those he considers his own, especially his women. He isn't cruel or controlling, no stalkers allowed. Our Alpha male is intensly loyal and sexy as hell. He can show his vulnerablity but only to those who have earned his trust and devotion.....back to our regularly scheduled programming....

Rourke was a career criminal who took pleasure in the game. He meets a cop, and not just any cop, but one that is a cop from the soles of her boots to the ends of her raggedly chopped hair. It's not what she does it is who she is. Incidentally they met when he was a suspect in her murder investigation. However we don't want to retell the story, we want to explain why this man is so.....mmmmmmmmm!

Rourke loves Eve. That may sound simple but it isn't. He loves her when she works way too hard and too long, when an investigation consumes her, when she is irrational about taking a "blocker", when she fights with his oldest friend, when she closes down emotionally, the fact is he loves all of her...just the way she is. Of course she loves him also, when he is blase about buying a planet, when he makes her host a fancy party for his business associates, when he forces a "blocker" down her throat, when he constantly injects himself into her investigations, when he forces her to face her fears. Then there is the sex....though we won't go into those details, you will just need to go read the books for yourselves.

After hours of discussion, debating the pros and cons of different actors, writers, and formats, we have come to the conclusion that only one man can bring Rourke to life. We would like to introduce you to....Gerard Butler. Yes we know he is Scottish but check him out in PS, I Love You. He does Irish just fine. He is very good at carrying off the intensity we require of our alpha males but he can also show that sweet, silly, loving side that makes us melt. We could also go on and on about how sexy he looks in and out of his clothes but that should be self evident. Note: Roarke doesn't own a dog, we just liked this picture.

Let's see who's next.....

Colonel Brandon from Jane Austen's "Sense & Sensibility" as played by Alan Rickman. He is an older man in love with a vibrant, outgoing and silly younger woman. He shows his longing in understated ways...sweet glances, picnic invites, defense of her mischevious ways and kindness towards her family. But the scene, as shown here, that earns him a spot on our list, is for his helplessness in the face of his love's brush with a life threatening illness. Our toes positively curled when he begs "give me something to do!" Perhaps some of you reading this blog don't find Alan Rickman a sexy man, we however find that his voice is enough to turn our heads and make us wish..... He also plays sexy bad guys.....check out Hans Gruber in Die Hard and the Sheriff of Nottingham in Robin Hood, Prince of Thieves.

Next on the menu ....yes we could eat him up.....Mr. Darcy, Mark Darcy, Colin Firth, it doesn't matter what his name is we love him. First, Colin Firth. What a versatile actor, he has beautiful deep brown eyes, the sweetest smile and he is an amazing actor. Then, Mr. Darcy, uptight and
sanctimonious or incredibly shy and proud? We say he's shy, a bit uptight but what a sight to watch him loosen up. mmmmmmm.... A proud man, a noble, falling in love with a woman of lesser birth against "his better judgement." His proposal was desperate and poorly worded but it is where we fell in love with him. Granted it was a train wreck and we just couldn't look away, but you had to admire the man for admitting all of his feeling, good and bad. And then there were three....Mark Darcy. Bridget Jones's Diary...Have you seen the movie? If you haven't go rent it....RIGHT NOW....then come back and read this post. Our favorite part is the end....yes it is a love story, yes they get together and that is all to be expected but Colin Firth delivers one of the sexiest lines, in the sexiest voice, in the sexiest manner.

Bridget Jones: Wait a minute. Nice men don't kiss like that.
Mark Darcy: Oh yes they fucking do.

Then of course there is the kiss....mmmmmmmm....enough said. If you don't get it, we can't help you.

Back to books....

Very Alpha Male - Wolf Mackenzie from Mackenzie's Mountain by Linda Howard -The "Hero" - Native American, loner, persecuted, sensual, devoted single father...and sexy. That goes without saying. The "Heroine" - naive, innocent, sheltered, self-professed old maid. What do they have in common? Passion! He loves his son, he loves his land and as soon as he meet her he loves her skin (and boy, does she get under his)....He tries to make her stay away for "her own good" ...did we mention that she is stubborn (and he likes it)....and won't stay away.... Thank goodness because their love story is one that we have to re-read every so often just to remember why we love our Alpha males. Check out the man his son becomes in "Mackenzie's Mission"....sexiness runs in this family.

To close this post, because it is really friggin late, we would like to thank Nalini Singh for the kick in the pants to start this blog, we have had a blast. We will update the blog regularly and hopefully we will hear from other opinionated readers...and writers (hint, hint Nalini). The next post will be from Ohio, wish us luck with our move.